July 22, 2013

Marriage Counseling Worksheets

Marriage Counseling Worksheets and Resources

Click on the following free marriage counseling worksheets and premarital questionnaire to enrich your marriage or to prepare for marriage. Print out copies and answer your worksheets separately, then share your answers with each other over a cup of coffee.  Or make it a date.

25 Questions to Ask Your Wife

25 Questions to Ask Your Husband

Marriage Enrichment Questionnaire

Pre-Marital History and Workshop

Seven Communication Rules for Marriage

Ten Commandments for Active Listening

Marital Values Worksheet

Seven Questions after the Affair

Coming Out of Depression and Back into Life

Failing Your Way into Growth

Reaching Your Goals

Get a Grip: Ten Anger Management Tools

Cognitive Distortions Questionnaire

The Four Main Feeling Groups

Links, Books and Websites

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Books for your relationship library:

On Sex

What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew about Sex: A Guide for Christian Men Howes, Rupp, Simpson (Baker Books, 2007)

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, Esther Perel (Harper, 2006)

The Sexual Man, Arch Hart (Word, 1995)

The Secrets of Eve, Arch Hart, Catherine Hart, Debra Taylor (Word, 1998)

Kosher Sex, Schmuley Boteach (Doubleday, 1999)

A Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue, Wendy Shalit (Touchstone, 1999)

On Marriage

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, John Gottman (Orion, 2007)

The Divorce Lawyers Guide to Staying Married, Wendy Jaffe (Volt Press, 2006)

Changes that Heal, Henry Cloud (Zondervan, 1990)

Boundaries, Henry Cloud and John Townsend (Zondervan, 1992)

After the Affair, Janis Spring (HarperCollins, 2012)

On Fathers

Father Fiction: Chapters for a Fatherless Generation, Donald Miller, (Howard Books, 2010)

Fatherless Generation, John Sowers, (Zondervan, 2010)

Fatherless America: Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem, David Blankenhorn (BasicBooks, 1995)

On Parenting

The Whole-Brain Child, Daniel Siegel and Tina Bryson, (Bantam Books, 2012)

Hurt: inside the world of today’s teenagers, Chap Clark (Baker Academic, 2004)

Internet Protect Your Kids, Roger Marsh and Stephen Arterburn (Integrity, 2007)

On Faith

The Prodigal God, Timothy Keller (Riverhead Books, 2008)

12 “Christian” Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy, Henry Cloud and John Townsend (Zondervan, 1995)

Messy Spirituality, Michael Yaconelli (Zondervan, 2002)

The Hidden Face of God: Science Reveals the Ultimate Truth, Gerald Schroeder (Touchstone, 2001)

Why Men Hate Going to Church, David Murrow (Nelson Books, 2005)


Richard Rupp, M.Div., MFT psychotherapist, author, speaker Individual, Premarital, & Marriage Counseling in Pasadena, CA (626) 449-1419

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